Articles by Casey Anderson

Divergent Photo Shoot

Fangirlmoms had SO MUCH FUN during this Divergent photo shoot with our very talented friend and photographer, Mark Nodland!




Why I am Team Warner

Warning * Spoiler Alert* Warning * Spoiler Alert*

Today I’m sharing my thoughts regarding my favorite character from Tehereh Mafi’s Shatter Me series, Warner. Warner is a multifaceted character with many-many sides to him and through each book more and more of him is revealed. When I started reading Shatter Me, I wanted to hate Warner and I tried, but there was just something about him that kept me guessing and wanting more of him. I was intrigued by him and just knew there had to be more to this guy. By the end of Destroy Me I couldn’t resist Warner anymore. I was truly fascinated and by the end of Unravel Me I was way past captivated and sinking deep into the depths of obsession.

In Shatter Me, everyone loves to hate Warner. People are fearful of him and do not see any good in him. He comes across as callous, harsh, uncaring, selfish, power-hungry, not to mention cruel. Warner shoots Private Seamus Fletcher, 45B-76423 on the quadrant in front of Juliette and his soldiers. He forces Juliette to touch, thereby hurting, Jenkins in front of the other soldiers. He wants to use Juliette as a weapon. He is threatens to hurt Adam in order to get Juliette to comply with his rules. He makes Juliette think she is going to kill a child again. He truly seems possessive of Juliette. After Adam and Juliette escape, he tries to kill Adam and Kinji. He is responsible for all of these things and shows no remorse. He does, in fact, seem quite the embodiment of evil and even a bit sociopathic. Nevertheless, I am curious about him. What makes him tick? Why is he doing this? When Juliette seduces him in order to shoot him, why do I want them to keep kissing? Why am I shipping them? There has to be more to his story!

I want more of Warner, so I read Destroy Me, and I find out that there is, in fact, more to him! We find out for instance that when Warner killed Private Seamus Fletcher, he did so because Private Fletcher beat his own wife and his own children daily. Private Fletcher even kept food from them, slowly starving them to death. By killing this man, Warner was trying to protect Fletcher’s family. Fletcher was the monster, not Warner.

The Fletcher incident also served as a cover to make dear ole Daddy, who is none other than the supreme commander, think he is killing insubordinate soldiers who are partial to the resistance. By doing this, is he is trying to save innocent lives. However, when the supreme commander finds out Warner did not kill Fletcher’s family he orders them killed and we see the true expectations held by the Reestablishment for Warner. Warner is not sold on the Reestablishment either.

In the same way Warner tries to protect innocent people, he was protecting Juliette from the thousands of lonely soldiers in sector 45 with the incident regarding Jenkins. If it weren’t for this, soldiers would have undoubtedly harassed Juliette and tried to get their hands on her. Without this necessary and controlled illustration with Jenkins, Juliette might have killed any one of those men and what would it have done to her? Warner didn’t want her to be harassed by them and he didn’t want her to have to deal with the guilt she would experience after killing one of his soldiers because of her touch. Warner was protecting Juliette!

We follow Warner into Sector 45 and we find out he visits the compounds frequently to check on the citizens because he wants to make sure they are cared for, have enough food and have enough medical care. He is concerned for the people. He looks the other way when his men take extra food home to their families. Then there is the scene when he feeds and cares for the stray dog and I have major Warner feels!

When Warner’s father shows up we find out the reasons why Warner is self-loathing, broken, empty and lonely. He has suffered abuse all his life at the hands of his father and this is all he knows. Meanwhile, Warner reads Juliette’s notebook and it becomes apparent that he truly loves her and he never, ever wanted to hurt her. He simply didn’t know how to show love appropriately because he had not experienced it himself and simply went about it in the wrong way. He realizes he has misunderstood Juliette and her happiness was not because of him, but was because of Adam. At this he becomes even more distraught.  At the same time, when he reads her notebook he sees into Juliette’s soul and realizes just how much they are truly alike; he understands her completely in a way that nobody else could, not even Adam, and it changes him! We see him begin to realize who he really is underneath the hard shell of his exterior, which has been constructed to protect him over the years.

Then along comes Unravel Me and Warner’s shell cracks wide open. He is captured and held hostage by Castle and during Juliette’s interrogations, he opens up to her and she starts to see the person inside the shell. He makes her feel “safe and familiar.” He knows everything about her including how she has killed. He accepts her. He encourages her to accept herself and find a way to deal with it. He doesn’t want her to feel ashamed of herself. He sees Juliette as strong and capable.  The more they spend time together; we see that he and Juliette are attracted to each other on an intellectual level and emotional level. And even before the illustrious chapter 62 with their white hot passion, Juliette realizes she is attracted to him physically. Then Warner recites the words he has memorized from her journal to her, explains why he did the things he did and apologizes. And in those moments Juliette understands him and she sees into his soul, which is wide open.

We find out about Warner’s gift and that he can touch Juliette because he can redirect others abilities. He can do this because this very ability is based on empathy, which allows him to intellectually identify with the feelings, thoughts, and attitudes of others. Yes, he has used this to his advantage in order to be manipulative. However, he also understands others. I am reminded of a quote from another book, very different from this one, but it has to do with empathy and war and when I think of this quote I think of Warner and I understand him.

“In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I also love him. I think it’s impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe, and not   love   them the way they love themselves. And then, in that very moment when I love them…. I destroy them.” ― Orson Scott Card, Ender’s Game

In the end, we see just how truly horrific Warner’s father is when he shoots Juliette in cold blood, just to punish his son. But, it provides us an opportunity to see Warner with all his defenses down. In the horrible moments when Juliette lay dying on the floor with Warner over her, begging Sarah and Sonya to save her, his shell is completely gone and all that remains is his warm, loving heart beating right out of his chest for Juliette.  This is a pivotal moment for Juliette and it’s at this moment when I realize that although I personally love Warner, I realize that because of all that’s happened and their true persons have emerged, Juliette and Warner need to be together. Juliette and Warner are perfect for each other. They understand each other better than anyone else ever could and on top of it all nature has given them abilities that bring them together-bring them together to be an effective team against the reestablishment. Then, Juliette says, “I’m done being nice. I’m done being nervous. I’m not afraid of anything anymore. Mass chaos is in my future and I’m leaving my gloves behind” and this solidifies my feelings about Warner and Juliette.

So, as you can see, Warner is not the villain everyone thinks he is. On the outside, Warner is a fortress built high with blocks of concrete. But inside, he is comfort and strength and he has the capacity to love beyond all measure. There are so many other things at work for him. He is intelligent. He is empathic. He is a survivor. He loathes his father and what he stands for. It even seems that he hates the Reestablishment and does in fact crave revolution. Warner is the difficult choice, but he is the right choice. Team Warner all the way! ~Casey Anderson






The Mortal Instruments City of Bones Themed Photoshoot

Early in July, we found out that the TMI Mall Tour was coming to The Mall of America and Cassie Clare was scheduled to be on that stop.  Minneapolis is only about 5 hours from us so the first Fangirl Moms trip was born.  We were going to fangirl with other fans and would meet Jamie Campbell Bower, Lily Collins, Kevin Ziegers and CASSIE CLARE!   We were SO excited!

Being the obsessed fangirls we are, and seeing as how Cassie’s books have changed our lives and brought us together, we wanted to make something meaningful to give Cassie in Minneapolis.  What could we possibly make that would be meaningful as well as personalized?  Eventually, we decided to dress up in Shadowhunter cosplay and have a photo shoot. We would then give Cassie the pictures with a personalized note! Our wheels were turning then, so off we went to create our costumes.  Thanks to Goodwill, Joann’s Fabric and Crafts, Michael’s, Hot Topic and, we created costumes complete with weapons, steles and runes.

Finally, it was time for the photoshoot with the very talented Nodland Photography!   A friend brought over his motorcycle and we all met in a location perfect for our theme. Fangirl Moms were totally rockin’ it in full cosplay; TMI, City of Bones style.  As you will see, the photos turned out amazing!

Enjoy the pics and check out our Behind the Scenes blog post by Nodland Photography.  Meanwhile, stay tuned for the scoop on our trip to the actual TMI Mall Tour Stop in Minneapolis.~CA



Fangirling Mr. Robert Sheehan

The man I have the most feels for, next to my husband of course, is Robert Sheehan!  Whom I prefer to endearingly call Robbie!  He is a sensational actor and an absolutely incredible person.

A truly gifted actor, no matter what character he plays, he creates tangible characters that are so real they invoke genuine emotions.  It’s no wonder that just over the past couple of years he has been nominated for six different film and television awards and recently was awarded the James Joyce Award from the Literary and Historical Society at UCD!


Aside from his natural talent, what really stands out to me is he is such a unique individual who is true to himself.   There is nobody else on Earth like Robbie and he doesn’t want to be like anyone else.  For instance, he doesn’t have a filter and seems to say whatever is on his mind.  This might be off-putting to some, but I find it quite charming, not to mention very amusing!

Also, Robbie is such a delightful person: funny, sweet, kind, well-spoken and always personable.  He absolutely adores meeting his fans!  I personally love how he frequently addresses his fans as “my love.”  Of course, I’ve never actually met him…yet!  I look forward to the day when he calls me “my love.”  *Swoon*

Finally, let’s not forget his great fashion sense.  Who else can pull-off Dent de Man Suits with glowing shoes or flip-flops?  To be fair, though, he could wear anything…or nothing at all…and still be adorbs.  I mean, the man is unequivocally gorgeous with those delectable curls of his, intoxicating smile and green eyes that seem to look right into your soul.  Then, to top it off, his Irish accent is lovely.  Whether it be his talent, personality, charisma, or stunning good-looks, Robert Sheehan shines the brightest! ~CA

About Fangirl Moms

Fangirls Moms began in the summer of 2013 when friends Casey and Jolene discovered their shared passion for the book The Mortal Instruments: City of Bones and the excitement of it being made into a movie.  When it was announced the author Cassandra Clare (Cassie) would be appearing along with several cast members at the Mall of America, 5 hours away, the first Fangirl Moms trip was planned.  To prepare for the trip, Casey and Jolene decided to have a professional photo shoot done in full cosplay.  They made steles, bought weapons, and looked “better in black than the widows of our enemies since 1234”.  They used those photos to make a short Graphic Novel for Cassie as a gift for bringing the Shadowhunter world to life for them. Unfortunately, Cassie fell ill and was unable to make it to Minneapolis but that didn’t stop the Fangirl Moms from camping out over night at the mall to ensure being able to deliver their gift to the cast for Cassie.  They made several fangirl friends and had so much fun they didn’t want it to end.

Live tweeting the event caused their follower numbers to rise and the Fangirl Moms loved being able to interact with Shadowhunters from all around the world!  But these fangirls are fans of more than just The Mortal Instruments and The Infernal Devices series, also by Cassie, and that is when the FANGIRLMOMS.COM website was born.

Fangirl Mom Casey is the mother of two girls (14 & 4) and is an Elementary School teacher. Fangirl Mom Jolene is the mother of a girl (6) and a boy (4) and works at local High Schools as a substitute teacher.  Both women are happily married with supportive husbands who appreciate them having an outlet for their fangirling.

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Jolene and Casey at the TMI Mall Tour at the Mall of America - July 28, 2013.
Jolene and Casey at the TMI Mall Tour – Mall of America – Minneapolis, Minnesota – July 28th, 2013


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